My work as a divorce coach is grounded in decades of professional leadership, strategic advising, and deep human understanding. For more than twenty years, I built and operated complex organizations where discretion, clarity, and sound judgment were essential. I have led teams, managed high stakes negotiations, and advised individuals navigating emotionally charged decisions that carried legal, financial, and reputational consequences.

Alongside my executive career, I have spent years supporting women in moments of profound personal rupture. Divorce is not simply a legal event. It is a psychological, emotional, and existential transition. For many high net worth and high visibility individuals, it unfolds under layers of pressure that few truly understand. Public scrutiny, complex financial structures, legacy concerns, and family systems intensify grief while demanding composure and strategic thinking.

My approach integrates emotional stabilization with practical guidance. I help clients regain clarity when shock and betrayal disrupt their ability to think, plan, and advocate for themselves. Together, we focus on restoring internal steadiness so decisions are made from wisdom rather than fear, reactivity, or exhaustion. This work supports clients as they assemble the right professional team, prepare for negotiations, organize documentation, and communicate effectively while protecting their privacy and long term interests.

I am particularly attuned to the needs of women who have spent years holding families, careers, and public identities together while quietly absorbing emotional strain. Many arrive accomplished, capable, and deeply disoriented by the collapse of trust. My role is to provide a steady, confidential presence that honors both their intelligence and their vulnerability.

meet your coach

Rachel Fenderson is a certified divorce coach with specialized expertise in betrayal trauma and high conflict divorce. Her work is informed by advanced professional training and the depth of lived experience. She has personally navigated the devastating impact of betrayal and understands the emotional, psychological, and practical upheaval it creates.

Rachel brings a steady, discerning presence to women facing complex and often adversarial separations. She understands how high conflict dynamics erode clarity, confidence, and self trust, and she guides clients toward grounded decision making, emotional stabilization, and long term resilience.

With compassion and precision, Rachel helps women move from shock and survival to strength and self leadership. Healing is possible. You do not have to walk this path alone. Together, the journey becomes purposeful, supported, and deeply restorative.

Divorce Coach specializing in

Betrayal Trauma

Betrayal trauma can cause you to feel shattered, anxious, and disconnected from society.

But you are not alone, and this pain does not have to define your story.

Establish a unique identity through high-quality mentorship and sustainable practices.

“I have walked this path before”

Set goals for your transformation.
Reaffirm a sense of safety in your body and environment.
Tools to manage triggers, emotions, and boundaries.
Clarity about what you want.
Receive empowerment to survive a divorce on your terms.

Learn More About Rachel →

Speaking with Rachel gave me clarity about my own journey – questions that I will be thinking about it for days/weeks to come. It made me grateful for the steps that have brought me to where I am, and I’m hopeful to help others.

Rachel explains things in a way that make it easy to understand and to follow. She “makes it make sense.” She also has a way of making you feel comfortable discussing uncomfortable subjects. I would highly recommend Rachel.

If you are a betrayed partner who is looking to heal and reclaim yourself…(regardless if you stay or go), Rachel brings professional and genuinely authentic guidance throughout the process. She is kind and supportive, yet proactive. Through her own experience, she brings a compassionate heart and deep understanding of what’s involved in healing.

Rachel is a great listener who is supportive and good at identifying core issues. She has been tremendously supportive during a confusing and traumatic time. Rachel has provided a safe space for me to be heard and seen.

Join the community to access and interact with those that have been through the same ordeal as you. All in a private, safe and welcoming space.

Follow the page below in order to read Rachel’s articles on healing, coaching and the path to transformation.

Rachel has prepared a free PDF guide to start you on your healing journey, sign up to the mailing list below to recieve it!

Contact Rachel now to schedule a free consultation.